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When Your Child's Overwhelm Mirrors Your Own: A Wake-Up Call for Moms

It was a jolt to my system as a mom. Hearing my 10-year-old son utter the words, "I just can't! I've got sooo much to do! And I don't know how I'm going to get it all done!" sent chills down my spine.

Those words... they were my words. The ones I'd muttered in desperation countless times before. I had unwittingly taught my son this response – a knee-jerk reaction to stress and overwhelm.

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When Worlds Collide: A Symphony of Frequencies, Healing, and Unexpected Connections

I absolutely love it when my worlds collide! Not in a chaotic, crash-bang kind of way (though those can lead to growth too), but in the magical moments when seemingly separate interests and curiosities suddenly converge. It's like a symphony of ideas harmonising, inviting me to dive deeper into the enchanting melody of interconnectedness.

This delightful convergence is a welcome contrast to the disarray of the past couple of years. Recently, I've felt a strong pull towards exploring essential oils. After three failed attempts, I finally connected with my friend Johanna and dove into the fragrant world of diffusers and starter kits. (I'm still a newbie, but Johanna's a fantastic guide!)

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Break Free from Your Circle of Comfort: Embracing Transformative Change

Have you ever felt stuck, like you're living life on a well-worn path with limited visibility? It's a common experience, rooted in the belief that our potential exists only within a certain radius of where we are now. But what if that's not true? What if there's a whole universe of possibilities waiting beyond that self-imposed circle of comfort?

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Taking Responsibility: Why Bad Things Happen

Have you ever noticed how some people always seem to have accidents, while others never get so much as a scratch? Or maybe you know someone who's been mistreated in every relationship they've ever had. What's going on here? Is it just bad luck?

While it may be tempting to blame external forces for our misfortunes, the truth is that we often play a far more significant role in shaping our lives than we realise This isn't about blaming victims – abuse is never okay, and perpetrators are always responsible for their actions.

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Taming the Monsters Within: A Gentle Approach to Fear and Anxiety

Fear and anxiety often feel like unruly children, demanding attention and refusing to be ignored. Their roots often trace back to childhood experiences where we felt powerless or overwhelmed.

When we try to suppress these feelings, they only intensify. It's like shushing a child who desperately wants to be heard. Anxiety is a natural alarm system, trying to warn us of potential danger. But when we dismiss it, the alarm gets louder, culminating in a full-blown panic attack.

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The Need to Be Heard (and How to Get Your Message Across Without Losing Your Cool)

We all have a need to be heard. And we all have emotions that need to be expressed. But here's the thing: they don't need to happen at the same time.

Let's say you're facing a problem that's making you angry. You go to talk to someone, and your anger takes over. You yell, you bring up old grievances, and you lose sight of the real issue. How effective is that? Not very, right?

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How to Hit Your Anxiety Off-Button: A Personal Journey

Anxiety can feel like a well-meaning friend who won't stop banging on your door, warning of dangers both real and imagined. It manifests in countless ways: health worries, relationship fears, a persistent sense of dread, or even physical sensations like a racing heart.

While a degree of anxiety is normal – it's our body's way of signaling potential threats – it becomes problematic when it spirals out of control. The fear that was supposed to protect us becomes the danger itself.

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It's Your Choice: Finding Growth After Loss

This morning's sunrise was a powerful reminder. Behind every cloud, the sun persists. Even when hidden, its warmth waits, ready to break through. It's a metaphor for life, isn't it? We have the power to create that space, to let the light in.

I love where the world is headed. It's an exciting time of change, and I choose to surround myself with those embracing it. We use this energy to shift, to grow, to open up. It's a conscious choice, a movement away from fear and stagnation.

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Homeschooling: Your Child's Inner Teacher

Remember those teenage years when you thought you had all the answers? Turns out, as a seasoned adult, I've realized our kids often possess a wisdom we overlook. I've spent years in personal development workshops, only to rediscover truths I instinctively knew as a child.

It's funny how we dismiss a child's simple solution to a problem, telling them, "That's not how it works in the real world." But what if we're wrong? What if homeschooling is about tapping into that innate knowledge?

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I became a Calmer Parent when I Realised this about Emotions

A few days ago, sitting in a café, the sound of a little girl's frustrated wail tugged at my heartstrings. It was like hearing an echo from my own childhood. Her mom's increasingly agitated pleas of "Stop being such a drama queen!" only fueled the fire. I could feel the tension rising, and it felt all too familiar. 

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